3 MEN of different career classes..see you mother is ..i don even know what to say.....tell her you know but id suggest u first find out whats bothering her seriously coz is it that your father is not delivering or what? i mean does mum know AIDS KILLS and she can end up going with your father...and why 3 diffrent men? weh sit your mother down and let her realise her actions kama sasa hasikii i think you should confide to a family member minus dad hatutaki WORLD WAR 3...good luck

Kindly,sit down with your mama and tell her that you are not happy with her behaviour and infact she will spoil her reputation.Let her know that it is so dangerous nowdays to sleep around since there is the killer disease AIDS.Then tell hher to talk to your dad it seems she is not getting enogh sex no wounder she is going to look for it outside am sorry for what you are going through though.

dont tell your dad coz you may make your place look like hiroshima.how far is their relationship?

Pearo are u advising that she breaks her own family by telling the dad?c'mon...put urself in the her shoes..Gal dont tell ur dad.we all know wat will happen if u dso

I feel ur concern gal.It really hurts to lose a mum.You have to be careful on which relative to call.It shouldnt be just anyone of ur family members.It should be someone who can protect her word.Better still,Some u know she can listen to and open up to.Is ur dad treating her right coz u seem to be quite comfortable with the church elder..?

Hi,hope am not being impetient,any progress so far?

This traumatising indeed for you;I can say you are patient,wise and caring , for youre dad. I dont know how many of us can stomach this behaivour,Talk to her and let her know how her behaivour is taking toll on you ;then gather enough substantial evidence proven ..and present it to youre mum ..and let her know if she has a problem with her libido you are willingly to share this same info with youre dad .Truth be told it may dawn to you that someday youre dad wil know her affairs .....better hurt her now than wait , it may be too late ..with this era of AIDS.For a MOTHER to have such platoonic affairs in ful knowledge of her daughter is unbecoming and irresponsible behaivour of her what example is she setting in the the FULL EYES of her daughter. No enough is enough ...Let youre dad know ....However the repurcurstions may be catastrophic for youre family .Actually you need to approach this carefully ..

Hi dear any progress?we are still waiting to here from u.

A matter as grave as this warrants wise counsel.Kabesh wants us to assume that the subjects' sorrows are mere figments of imagination and we must object.Sins of passion are by their nature discreet and are initially executed in utter darkness.Yet we soon smell them,feel them,and witness them ,for they are not capable of camouflage.To expect the young lady to catch her mother 'inflagra delicto' is to ask too much of her.Clearly,our girl demonstrates a much more maturity and concern for the family than her philanderous mother.How does she proceed to redeem the family from the abbys its headed for? to me that is the issue.
A professional counselor might offer direction on this delicate situation and i would encourage our heroin to secure the services of one,for what
causes a person to be a nymphomaniac? Is it heightened indulgence or the lack of it all together?
These are pyschiatric issues.

your mama might be innocent may be she just have a big heart, the fact that she is nice to other men does not mean that she is having an affair, pls do your investigations well before you jump into conclusions

Eeh that one is tough but talk to her if you are close or call anaa person like her sister then you can talk to her together - all the best

She seems to be having a field day, where is your dad when all this is happening? Is he concerned about her change of behavior? You need to tell us more about dad, coz he may be an absentee husband leading to your mom being on rebound to give it to all and sundry.

Nevertheless what she's doing is very bad. Pls confront her and let her know yu are aware of everything and she must stop.

Confront your mum today. Dont wait for tomorrow. And let us know how it turns out.

...I dont know what to tell you.....but Im getting more hurt by the day.
Last night she had an outing with the mechanic.She came in this morning.She lied to me that they are preparing for a pre wedding for some family friend.Yes,there is such an event coming but I saw them somewhere in a really compromising position with the mechanic.
What hurts me most is that this mechanic is almost my age mate.
Im planning to bash his head.
Friensds,who has experienced it before.

Stop keeping tabs on your mum.May be hiyo ndio raha yake.Introduce her to DK and she'll get the right advice.

Am sorry that u are going through this..i know how it feels coz ave been in a very similar situation.My dad was havin an affair nd one day i came face to face with him nd the woman..i confrontd him but(me been the emotional one)cried instead of talkin .I bet he felt guilty nd his concious could not let him.Now he is changed nd it's very evident.Try to confront ur mum nd pray.All the Best n plz do not let this issue get u sick..it almost destroyed me but am lucky i got my way out.

No, do not call your mum a slut regardless of what she has done or how you feel. If you are going to go it alone, tell her that you know and let her know how you feel about it. Dont be too soft on her either. If she needs help, let her talk to dear Kenyans.

I thanks you guys...I seeme to have a way forward.
What i dont like is the family status getting compromised.Dad is and architect,mum is a nurse.The church elder looks decent but the mechanic nad the miraa guy make me feel sooo like......I dunno.
Im so sure of this coz I have seen the elder go to bed with mum.Im just too sure about the mechanic coz he pats her ass when we go to colect the multi.
The miraa guy meets her at Thika,and once I followed them they took a room.
Guys,I have just told mum I need to speak to her,but do I call her a slut on the word go?I know all of you really know the value we attach on our mums.
Please tell me what to say.

Share it out with an elder trusted relative to discuss it with her and let the relative not disclose that its you who reported. She can say she got info from a reliable source. I dont think it will be a good idea to be present at the talks, she may never live with that embarasment. If that doesnt work, then you can now approach her.

Share it out with an elder trusted relative to discuss it with her and let the relative not disclose that its you who reported. She can say she got info from a reliable source. I dont think it will be a good idea to be present at the talks, she may never live with that embarasment. If that doesnt work, then you can now approach her.

THIS IS SO HURTINGMY DEA AM EVEN SURE THAT NOW THE RESPECT U HAD FOR YOUR MUM HAS ENDED BUT DONT WORY MY DEAR JUST PRAY TO GOD TO GIVE U WISDOMTO TALK TO YOUR MUM BEFORE THIS GETS WORSE .I WISH U LUCK DEAR & PUT YOUR TRUST IN THE LORD

talk with your mum let her know the dangers of the affair she is having

talk to your mama . the world these days is full of so many diseases that are uncurable. tell her to stop such awkward ans demeaning behavior

Talk to your mum and as Lisa says, you may need a relative to be there. Tell her how you feel about everything. Let the older relative initiate the talks and let it be urgent. All the best.

Wooii manze pole that's hurting. Talk to your mum if you can and see if you can find the root of the problem. Probably she does it as revenge or may be they are not intimate with your dad for some reason. Still for the problem to be solved she and your dad will eventually have to talk. You may need the help of a close relative.

How did you find all these affairs b4 ur dad,dont u think he knows and may theyve been trying to solve the matter by themselves without ur knowledge,ok if ur sure he doesnt know,please seve the situation b4 the bom explodes affecting all of u,talk to you mum let her realise how much you respect both of your parents and how shamefull it is to u and the diginity of the whole family,if she rebukes u then u can approach ure close untie and c if she can assist.