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I was in a relationship 7 years ago with a lady who is now married .In this relationship we had a baby gal together but after a few years things never worked out as we expected n we parted ways.Right now the lady has 2 kids, the first kid is mine n the second one is from her new 5 years marriage.The problem is that the lady is still in love with me as she proclaims.My wife knows all about all the past n even the current affairs goin on wth me n her n has no problem taking the kid if needed be.but my former gal friend talks about the good, past n forgotten love we shared together.she event insists of having sex with me if am interested .I have terminated all possible communications with her and stood beside my loving wife. have i done the right thing? advice me more please
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2008-06-29 | Eva Philip said:
No Way
You have done the right thing, both of you have moved on and you have a wonderful wife, no turning back, forget about the sex she wants to offer, pray always.
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2008-06-24 | nkiro said:
hey! i think i know you.........!!
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2008-06-04 | Peris said:
Take care
You have done the right thing in need.This woman is just using you and she might end up ruining your marriage with your loving wife as you say so,if i were you i would keep away from her because you might end up lossing everything or endup being so attached with this other woman so take care.
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2008-04-09 | supuu by nature said:
woooooooooow
you are very much lucky to have a wonderful,understanding wife.....please 4get about the past and concentrate on your marriage now that u got a wife....appreciate your wife as she is very rare woman to found nowerdays...just continue supporting your child with first woman as a loving dad and ever show your former gf any emotional needs as woman very sensitive..... i salute u for your wise decision.. keep up bro may GOD BLESS U AND UR FAMILY
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2008-04-08 | flames said:
CONGRATS
CONGRATS FOR THE DECISION U HAVE MADE CONTINUE STANDING WITH YOUR WIFE.DONT BE LURED BY YOUR EX MOVE ON PAL
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2008-04-07 | Lisa said:
Your ex just wants a lolypop to spice up her sex life, don't fall for such a cheap offer. Your wife is one of the best women there is considering her trust and respect for u, u will do the right thing by never ever betraying her.
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2008-04-07 | Pearo said:
oki doki
Eheee!! Now oga you talking like a real man actually a guru.YES youre wife shows and apreciates you and shows respect ..what more can you do for her than reciprocating ...eheee love youre wife unconditioanlly and respect that instituition .God bless you ..and may he continue guding you ..THE DEVIL IS A LIAR. I have always said trust eveyone but not the devil inside them. pple have lost conscious my bro, nobody cares for their actions . selfishness is the order of the day
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2008-04-07 | Jaymu said:
OK
you know the right thing to do and which u've already done,you don't feel certisfied why? I think you are still i love with ur former and still communicating cos if you are not how does she inform u that she needs to have sex with u n-way,you are lucky you current wife is type that takes time to listen and understant,actually me am worried if this lady was ur wife and things never worked,now why is she back to you mind.please respect you wife and forget about that devil agent.
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2008-04-06 | Mkenya Halisi said:
The Ex factor
"I have terminated all possible communication". Why are you kidding us. I am sure it just boosts your ego to have her drooling over you. Change your number, move if you have to and cut all communication if you are serious.
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2008-04-05 | Gee said:
congrats meen.That's a sign of having steel balls!That's the way to go brother.Happy marriage,PERIOD.
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2008-04-05 | gabby said:
dear,
standing beside your loving wife is the best thing you have ever done in your precious life.
let the past remain in the past.
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2008-04-05 | nico said:
right
u r on the right track terminate comm if u respect n love ur wife. tell her to concentrate on her new husband