What you tell your mind to do is what it will do try to say no and you will be happy.Remember mtaka yote hukosa yote so,kindly stick to one partner there so many diseases nowdays what if you end up geting it from the other new catch.Put yourself in your boyfriends shoes how would you feel if he did the same thing to you?

you are just betrayin your love and Sir God is just watching you and you will suffer for that

My dear,the question is,"u can't stop seeing the other guy" or "u won't stop seeing the other guy"?If it's can't,u can because its all in your power.Just like u decided u can't,the same way u can decide to stop.Its good u realised your mistake,but are u sure u still want to marry ur fiance?One thing,if u really and truelly loved ur fiance,u shouldn't have considered the vibes of the other guy,let alone sleep with him.In short,u took ur finace's love for granted.Gal,learn from ur mistakes,u can't live forever in a lie,one day,the truth will be known.

LET ME TELL YOU HURT THIS GUY. GOD IN HEAVEN SEES EACH AND EVERYTHING. WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND AND WHEN ITS YOUR TURN YOU WILL HURT EVEN MORE. UR GUY MYT NOT KNOW BUT SOME DAY HE WILL BUT YOUR DAY IS COMING

Be warned," a hunter who is never certisfied with an antelop will one day colapse UNDER the wait of an Elephant" Go ahead, U R diging ur own GRAVE. DAVE

Advice u on what? how to cheat on your fiance or on how not to stop you frm seeing this other guy.

TO ME U SOUND LIKE U R A LOOSE GAL & MY ADVICE TO U CHICK IS THAT STOP WASTING THE TIME FOR THIS OTHER GUY & CONTINUE WITH YUA RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS OTHER GUY

u do not need any advice since u cant stop seeing that jamaa. but remember the risk involved with sleeping with both guys

First id like to kill you.You have joined that group of strings of whores who hustle men to a point of engaging them,then go ahead giving out pussy like father chrismas giving candy.
When will women learn?I sear almost every chic getting married nowadays is a cheat.And now coz u wont stop seeing this other jamaa,doent ti mean that even your heart has purposed to play him while feeling mzuri from other ends?
This explains why some of us would rather die single.

sweetie break off ur engagement with this other guy.... u are still too young to be getting tied up in marriage... u need to experience stuff and it is no use getting tied up to the first guy u fell in love with... honey i guarantee u there will be a few more u want to sample b4 u settle down..... u may find out waht u call love is just an infatuation..

Most pple make the mistake of marrying pple they were meant to be with only 4 a season to teach them just one leson and then down the road they wonder why they are having so many problems (Tyler Perry).....

so gal thank ur lucky sutars coz uy truly arent ready

mkenya halisi has said it all.

Maze, u never sugar coat anything do u? I think as naked as it is, what u say is pure truth.

Much as i dont envy being in your fiances' shoes,I admire your choice of words.Whatever this new thug is laying on you sure has driven you to distraction.Could it be the chemistry or other worldly material considerations?If its the way he laying the pipe on you,then poor fiance hana bahati. Nothing distracts a lady more than a good dick so we we ndio tu unajijulia!

"I CANT STOP SEEING THIS OTHER GUY" well big up ;bake youre cake and eat it ...how dont know how to advice you better you have made youre decision.Watch out for AIDS THOUGH. play it safe

please your heart,continue with your men since you are saying you can't stop seing the other guy,kama utaweza kuwarithisha wote sawa n-way kumbuka mtaka vyote ukosa vyote am sure you'll one day regret.

i say that with sooo much confidence coz,you sincerely do not love him at all.if you did you could not have slept with another guy.imagine you already did that before you get together,what of later in your marriage??how many more gutz will you sleep with coz you like them??
let your head control your heart in this case.honey,does your boyfriend deserve that??
i am not judging what you have done,but i just dont think you should continue seeing the other guy.tell your fiance about it,he is bound to get madd,but come clean.so that the other guy has no chance of blackmailing you later in life when you're married...

"Even though I love my fiancee, I slept with him..." That clearly tells you that your definition of love is distorted. Imagine if it was your fiancee who had done that. Would you forgive him? Love is doing things that you would still have done anyway even if your other half was around. I suggest you come clean with your jamaa. If he accepts it, cool, if he does not, too bad but it will haunt you. You do not go into a marriage with secrets, especially that kind.

"i cant stop seeing this other guy" What are we supposed to advice you abt if this is ur stand?

How would you feel if ur fiance sleeps with another chick n says the same words to you?