There is this guy who really likes me alot but I dont have the same feelings for him like he does for me I just see him as a friend. I met this guy the same time i met my current boyfirnd and that was three and a half years ago. What I didnt know is that when my boyfriend was hitting on me this other guy was also interested in me and was also trying to get close to me, I had no idea what he was doing. I just thought he was my friend, plus he was my boyfriend's friend so i never thought that he would do something like that behind his friends back.
My boyfriend found out what this other guy was doing so they stopped talking to each other, I didn't know the real reason why they weren't talking to each other until this guy disclosed his true feelings for me when my boyfriend and I had a disagreement and separated for sometime. I told him wasn't interested and that I still liked my boyfriend. But from then onwards he keeps on disturbing me and insists on still being my friend, even though my boyfriend and i are back together. I have no problem with guys admiring me, but am not comfortable with this guy giving me this attention. This is because of his past, he spent some time in prison for armed robbery, although he told me that he was arrested falsely, he is also a very quiet guy and its hard to know what he is feeling, on top of that he gets offended very easily and has self esteem issues. He is also very jealous, he doesn't like it when I talk to his roommates who are also my friends, his roommates are even scared of talking to me when they see me. He gets jealous to the point that he even once suspected me of actually seeing a lecturer once. He is very obsessed with me and I fear that he might one day do something to my boyfriend or even me , cause there was a time he saw my boyfriend and I talking and he sent me a weird text. If I don't say hi to him its a problem, he will complain to his roommates, he even complains that some of my ladyfriends are bad influence on me, he tells his roommates this. Am I overreacting to this situation if not how do i cut this guy from my life, i cant run away from him coz we are in the same colle. I just want to know how I can divert his attention from me he is not giving up and its not sweet anymore its creepy, plus I have been reading a lot of true stories of love triangles gone bad where people die with some having started like situations like mine.