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I want to kick her out of my boyfriend's life
My relationship with my boyfriend is breaking coz of his sister-in-law. He pays too much attention to her and her problems in her relationship. I have talked to him about it but he stills insists that nothing will happen. I know for sure that a chick will be attracted to a man who can listen to her problems and at times give solutions that favour her against her boyfriend. I know this might happen b2n them(if it's not already happening) and i need to stop it. Please advice me.

Ps: The girl doesn't like me much but am not gonna back-off, i want to kick her out of my boyfriend's life. After all, i keep clear of her boyfriend n have never gone running to him 4 anything. Help pls
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2008-06-24 | chichi said:
Dear approach all of them,but don't react go to the brother talk to him in a very reasonable manner en make him understand that you are not happy with the way the girlfriend is behaving with your boyfriend,then approach your boyfriend and tell him your not comfortable with the way he's behaving with the lady then finally approach the lady and make your stand.
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2008-06-24 | QUESTION OWNER said:
Please tell me how to fight for him. Should i approach her, my boyfriend or his brother?
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2008-06-24 | pickme said:
get to the root of the problem
talk to that so called in law and tell her you have a problem with her being too close to your man.then tell your man the same before she goes and tell him her own version of what u told her.ask them how they would both feel if you were that close his brother or her boyfriend.nowadays my dear, men and women are too cunning......dont risk, fight for your man.
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2008-06-23 | sly said:
okey okey guys i thought its his blood sister...........
Anyway if you are suspecting that they have an affair, just go ahead and take an action.
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2008-06-23 | chichi said:
Dear I think now I've gotten more of the whole story,go talk to her boyfriend(that is the brother to your boyfriend and tell him you don't like the way her girlfriend is behaving with your boyfriend,or rather just face her en tell her the truth.You should also talk to your boyfriend and this time make it clear that your not comfortable with the way he is behaving with this other lady,just ask him if he will be happy seeing you en his brother always together trying to find solutions to your relationship.
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2008-06-23 | QUESTION OWNER said:
Sly; She is not his blood sister!!! She is not even married to his brother yet and they are not even living together!! I only give her that name for the respect that she is girlfriend to my boyfriend's brother. I don't really have to try and get along with her coz she is full of madharau. all i do is give her her space but she just enjoys complicating things.
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2008-06-23 | chichi said:
Sly,you are so wrong,this is just a sister in law,no blood relation is involved this guy might just be having an affair with this chic,trying to convince the poor lady that he is just trying to assist,this two persons might be blinding you by the whole "in-law" stuff.So be careful of the relationship between this woman and your boyfriend,she is a woman en she has feelings.
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2008-06-23 | sly said:
You know what darling, you are tha stranger here, the only thing you can do is to try and get along with her, you know very well that no one can separate blood brothers and sisters.
imagine someone trying to separate you from your bro? how would you feel ...............and again dont let your boyfriend know about your bad intentions coz for real youll end up been dumped......................................