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Advice me early b4 i make a complete fool of myself
Hi guys, am getting married in August and am scared coz am a virgin and i have no clue of how to go about sex. Please give me details so that i don't make a complete fool of myself. And please don't hate me for asking a question like this, its really important that i learn. I invite all kinds of answers even the nasty.
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2008-06-25 | Fabrizio G. said:
congrats for the marriage
why should we hate u?
best sex is inexperienced, just keep ur partner informed about that you are a virgin. let the flow go and take your time.
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2008-06-23 | kazimoto said:
Whatever you do, please don't go listening to what others say. Most people exaggerate their experiences. Don't watch pornos either. That stuff is fake. You can't expect to be perfect, it's your first time together. And he will carry some of the responsibility as well. Having great sex is just like any other skill you acquire, it takes time. And like learning how to ride a bike takes boldness so does this.
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2008-06-23 | sly said:
wow......... a virgin,thats cool....
That should not worry you now because if your boyfie knows that you are a vigin, he will be gentle with you and he will teach you everything about sex............. All you gotta do is to participate in love making... dont let him do everything......na usilale aki peform
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2008-06-23 | STL said:
For starters u shouldnt worry coz uv got no experience.
Ope ur new 2b huzzy knows ur one and will peleka u slowly coz girl ull have a hell of an experience but usijali after that u wouldnt be askn any more querries ni vyenye its gonna b sweet.
Bt how to do it just be calm and hav enuf foreplay.
let ur huzzy excite ur teets and clitotis so that uwe kwa mood ya the real thing and once both of u are high enuf let him penetrate u.
ope av helped u
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2008-06-23 | Comeday said:
bestcouples........
By being a virg congrats. If u will b doing a church wed ua best wil direct u.And some church conduct bridal showers which is so educative ad i enjoy. If NEITHA OF THAabove ad ua x loves u he will take u cautiously and lovingly mbali sio kama baisiko.
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2008-06-23 | Luke said:
Hey,
If ur boyfriend knows that you are were a virgin, he will not dump you just because your first sex wasn't "experienced" so to speak.

Do what you think will please you and him. Am assuming that you know how sexual intercourse is done. Do not tense, be relaxed and things will go okay.