Did you go through with it? Which one is more difficult? sharing your life with someone you can't trust or the embarrassment of a few days or weeks? What people will think is not your concern at this time. Your happiness and peace of mind come first. you were betrayed. I know you had worked hard to organise everything and had looked forward to the big day. Okay, you can forgive but that doesn't mean you having to go through with it. You know what's good about this? You have seen his true colours.

Thanks so much guys. I called it off and even he was shocked. I think he didn't think i can pull that off. That made me feel so good. Despite the fact that am still hurting, i know al be good with time. He still keeps bugging me with smses and calls and emais but i won't chicken i promise

Ma sister i will only tell u that, weddings break even on the d-day.how stupid will u be,ati u love the guy!!!!do u know even if he paid the dowry to ur family, the day u will pour it to them wat conspired, it will be refunded period.Get married and i tell u, will live to regret.

If he is cheating on u just b4 the wedo, what will happen when you start start staying 2gether and he gets bored by you. Open your eyes wide as this is a revelation to you.

The worst things would hv happen in future God ha revealed already so dont worry abt friends, family cuz of embrassment tats nothing not like miserable Marriage better break wedding than marriage. if ur not saved seek for God first, go for church counselling, or family elders who came for ua engagement both sides also ua parents and his parents speak to them the truth they will understand u'll be ok. my best friend called off her wedding i three weeks time after getting real friend in bed with her fiance in his hao in bed the way u got them. She now i UK doing very well,

even you our heavenly father has good plans for you and someone somewhere who deserve you. take courage and pray everything will be well slow by slow. PLIS DONT GO BACK TO HIM IS A DEVIL ALREADY" I feel for you dear!!!!!!!!!

I hope you are a believer n if you are one remeber that God has so many ways of unvailing things n this is one of them.Imagine he is the one who got you!!!!!!call off the wedding immediately.I was in wedding committee of aclose friend who called off the wedding via SMS in less than 2momnths.coz His gal had gotten a greener pasture.Try to assume that you wil 4give him n let him put that ring in your finger then utajionea mwenyewe.kindly get out from that relation without looking back God wil get you your rite partner.

Gurlfriend am telling you God Really loves you if that happend before your wedding. Honey, stand for yourself. That guy doesnt deserve you, dont shed a single tear for him. Its hard to accept but gal, he doesnt love you the way u love him. How can he forget something that important (Forgetting as in he left for somewhere else when u told him u will pass by is OK, But bringing another woman?.......Damn gal, whats wrong with these men?.........sob sob........It hurts.
as Beyoce put it, He can be replaced, you can find another one in a minute..........

THANK GOD MY DEA THAT U HAVE FOUND OUT ABOUT THIS EARLIER WHO KNOW MAYBE EVEN THE MAN RIGHT NOW IS SICK & IF U CONTINUE FORWARD WITH THE WEDDING PLANS U MIGHT REGRET FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE SO WAT I CAN ADVICE YOU IS THAT JUST CALL IT OFF THE EARLIER THE BETTER COZ EVEN IF U GO AHEAD TO MARRY HIM U MIGHT END UP REGRETING FOR THE REST OF LIFE

am sorry gal.
but look at it this way if u wouldnt have found out he would still be doing it after the wedding and maybe in the future what worse? you found out early enough to save your ass honey.
and what kind of a man forgets that his fiancee said he will be passing over and invites another woman to his house just for sex..the way i see it he knew what he was doing.and can u belive that it was going to be the same house you were to move to once you get married.forget abt him sweety he is not worth the tears or the worries or your time.your family will understand and will stick by your side.
the same thing happened to my cousin a few months to her wedding, she discovers there has been another woman in his life...but we understood and supported her.am sure you will get through this and come out a strong woman.usidanganywe wanaume ni wengi and if God amesema u will get married even at 50 utapata wa kukuoa.

sweet heart this aint a simple situation u've found urself in..Talk to ur Dadddy in heaven..He listens and acts..Maybe thats an eye opener for wtas in store for ur future wit him.We(women) are all weak emotionally&they say time is a healer..dont mind the shags folks or church elders thoughts after u call the wedding off.u clled them to ur wedding so u can as well call it off.You will be ok.time heals..someone worth ur love will be presented by God soon...when the time is right

My dear,
I am sorry it is better it hurts now than you end up spending the rest of your life with a cheat....seriously you need to let everyone know wsup seriously coz the more time your taking the more deep the marriage arrangements are progressing...Before i even go on am sorry you had to find out that the love of your life is cheating on you after all you have had...It hurts but you just have to deal with it and let go not now but when you are ready to..first things first call of the engagement...come clean you are the victim here not him it was him who messed up all you had not you...And id advice you to tell your best friend you will really need her at this time...No one should cheat you that it wil be easy it wont...Money, time , love and energy has been spent in your relationship and your fiancee decided to abuse all that you had. I dont think you deserve to be with such a man...you actually do not deserve to be with such a man...Pray God gives you the strength to forgive him.....but you need to come clean asap and tell him its over...gal am praying for you...good luck and please let us know how you are doing..

Imagine its God who wanted u to know who u are going to marry. Dont take His warning lightly.

You are not the calprit here so u shudnt fear calling it off, u have evidence and let him face the embarassment. Yu cant live with that guilt if u marry him, ur going to start on a very bad footing which will be difficult to rectify. How will u go for honeymoon etc with all the feelings in ur heart? Just call it off , period.

Though it will cause so much embarrassment there is no need for you to undergo such trauma,don't tell people the exact thing why you are calling off,but girl no need of you walking down the aisle with a guy you caught in bed with some other woman.

Am really sorry for what ur going thru.Its clear your fiance is not seriouse as you are with him,how can he....dah.Anyway try talking to him,tell him how you feel and talk to your family and am 100% they will support you.If he can cheat on you 2 months b4 your wedo,what will happen when you get married.l also believe if you still love the jamaa,you can still 4gv him,follow your heart anyway,but try exausting all the options b4 you call off the wedo.All the best.

Just do it The embarrassment you will feel now will save you years of pain from an unfaithful husband. Tell your best friend first because she might be able to give you some support, then tell his family. Everyone else can find out however they'll find out. And of course you love him, that doesn't stop abruptly just because he does this to you. But he's no good and all the love in the world can't fix this flaw so you have to get over it.