First thanks a lot. Am really trying to deal with it.

Now Argie u've said that a guy will never leave his platonic friend for his girlfriend. Is that true in all cases? Does it mean that if he were to be given a choice he would choose her? Am asking this coz the chick had once told him that she has feelings for him and wants to be more than just friends. I guess this is what throws me offbalance all the time.

You are a very special person who deserves to get jealous for all the good reasons. however jealousy could really get nasty when its not backed by substantial facts. your jealousy could cloud your sound judgment and you know what, this is the time you need your sobriety. please remain calm and sober while dealing with this issue. give your man the best that he deserves and the reasonable space that every man wants. that way you will appeal to him with a pull that he cant resist. please handle delicately and fulfill your mans needs as he does yours. get to know the other girl well and be friends. all the best. BILL.

There's something us chiq never understand,that our boyfies' won't leave their platonic friends for thier galfriends.We forget that this platonis are probably childhood friends or just plain good friends,nothing more.Don't see her as ur enemy,make her ur friend and by that u will enjoy ur realtionship.Do not pretend to like her,if u can't get along,jst say it to ur b/f,i know he will understand.Talk about it and u will see u r just worried for nothing.
Am a platonic friend to some guyz and its hard too.

Just be neutral,don't act jealous as most of us ladies would act very close to your guy the minute we discover that you are jealous,on the other hand you should also try to accept the fact that your boyfriend appreciates this other gal like a very good friend,you should also start being friendly with her en with time you will learn to accept her presence near your boyfriend

The best thing to do is try and also get close to her, that is, if it does not bother your bf. On the other hand, you can be frank and tell your boyfriend that you love him and that is why you are truly jealous and you need reassurances from time to time that he also treasures you as his lady.