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hey am damn confused and nid your help
av got a boyfriend of many years and we love each other!
the problem is that some other man is takn control over me.Am not sure if av fallen for him coz his really treatn me like a queen and has promised me heaven if i accept him in ma life of which am sure he aint kiddn coz i can read it his eyes.
the problem is ma boyfie.oflate wev bin havn lots of issues and his bin accusn me of many stuff.
should i really leave him or stick to the two men? |
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| 2008-07-17 | Sensible said: |
Come on! |
Ati you read it in his eyes? No one can take control over you - you decide what to do. If a deal is too good, think twice. If you are not sure you have fallen for him, you have not. If someone genuinely liked you, he would treat you like a queen because you are you, not because you have accepted him. Take a minute to evaluate what's more important to you - what you are being promised that may or may not turn out to be true, or what you have had and has been satisfactory. |
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| 2008-07-17 | softy said: |
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All that glitters is not gold, my dear just take time to know this new guy without breaking up with your boyfriend coz i dont believe their is a story that "i can read it in his eyes" i think you have watched tooo many soap operas. so know the guy first before getting involved with him |
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| 2008-07-01 | kabesh said: |
give it a try |
you claim the new guy treats you like heaven, give it a try gal friend... |
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| 2008-07-01 | Argie said: |
Stick to none |
Gal,let me tell you something i have learnt in life,men will promise to bring the heavens down for you while they want you,and give you hell when u r in their palms.If you boyfriend is giving you issues,talk them out,if that doesn't work,walk out.The other dude,amybe just wants to confuse you and leave you boyfriend.It might be that he is testing your loyalty especially if he knows u and boyfie ahve been having issues.U might go to him expecting to be his queen and then get a shock on ur life when he tells u that he was just testing you.
NB:Men can be very patient when they want something....hang in there gal and don't rush into anything even if u r frustrated in ur current relationship.
All the best dear. |
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| 2008-07-01 | Felixo said: |
Wolf in a sheep skin |
Ever heard of a saying 'better the devil you know, or all that glitters is not gold'? Im sure even your old guy treated yu as a queen those good old days.
Have yu thought she can also get a lady who can treat him as a king?
Gal take control of your life, go back to your old guy. Im sure those issues yu have now are because of divided attention yu've developed.
Yu cant stick with both unless yu want to marry both, do yu? So clear the fog in your eyes and stop dreaming. Dedicate yourself to the previous guy. |
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| 2008-06-30 | kazimoto said: |
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You are entertaining the affections of another man knowing full well you have a boyfriend... isn't he then right in accusing you of 'stuff'? You are not confused, you're like the greedy hyena who came to a fork in the road and wanted to follow both for some food. Remember the fate he suffered? |
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| 2008-06-30 | Luke said: |
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Better the food you have tested than some good looking fruit that may be poisonous. |
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| 2008-06-30 | flames said: |
MTAKA VYOTE HUKOSA VYOTE |
MY DEAR GAL DONT GO RUSHING INTO THIS OTHER MAN BECOS HE TREATS U LIKE A QUEEN THINK OF WAT U WANT WITH YUA LIFE,LIFE IS TOO SHORT AND SO SPEND IT WISELY |
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