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not exited!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hi dk, im 1 month and some wks pregnant with my first child and am engaged and working,i have a very loving and supporing fiancee(the father of my child) and i have loved him ever since, my problem is that i sometimes feel like i all of a sudden resent him like i dont want to see him or be with him i dont want to say hate because its a strong word but i feel like he sometimes irritates me this days,is it hormones or have i just discovered that i dont love him anymore and im making a big mistake?is this kind of feeling normal and am i being selfish.please note my fiancee wants to support me and the baby and he is so exited about being a dad but im not so much sometimes.what should i do?
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2008-10-04 | muini28 said:
Stages
Relax girl..it happens when pregnant.
Relax,its normal.
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2008-07-16 | softy said:
i hear its normal but i really dont know the real truth about it. coz pregnant women do alot of weaired things and it also makes me scared of ever getting pregnant. Can you imagine a pregnant woman said she likes smelling her hubbies smelly sock!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! yack
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2008-07-07 | Luke said:
It is normal....learn not to push ur guy away however. And also realize that relationships should need alot of work. All the best
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2008-07-03 | flames said:
ITS NORMAL
MY DEAR DO NOT FEAR I HEAR THAT ITS NORMAL ESPECIALLY WEN SOMEBODY IS EXPECTING THEY TEND TO HATE THEIR PARTNERS.IT IS HORMONES SO DONT LET THE PREGNANCY CONTROL U BUT U SHOULD BE THE ONE TO CONTROL THE PREGNANCY SO DONT WORY AFTER GIVING BIRTH U WILL OVERCOME THIS
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2008-07-03 | prit said:
be very happy and thankful to God
look around u n tell me how many pregnant ladies get th sperm donors that excited.NOT that many huh?
Your hormones out to react that way.Remember ur body is not used to foreign bodies in the name of a foetus..so just relax,take it easy and most importantly,be proud of ur pregnancy.In any case,be as excited as ur hubby.Your child will be a very healthy one if u r relaxed and happy..if not for u,pls do it for the unborn
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2008-07-02 | Lilo said:
ITS NORMAL
Its very normal to feel that way. There are alot of things that young gals are not aware about regarding pregnancy. What pple talk about most is the labour pain (which is nothing to be afraid of by the way) and morning sickness. There are other feelings which differ with each woman and are due to hormnes like tiredness/lazyness. what I would advice you, do research on the net regarding pregnancy there is a certain site that requires you to fill in some info like when you last had your Ps then it will give you the estimated time when you will have the baby. It also tells you what you are likely to feel every week until the day you deliver, you will also get to see other gals who got pregnant at the same time as you and their experiences. Just google it this will help you alot.

All the best and please love your guy and let him understand what you are going through.
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2008-07-02 | karedi said:
its just hormones gal!
Gal, these are just hormones evading ur body. i know it happens coz of experiences from other women. dont let it ruin ur relationship with ur fiancee. Just like they say morning sickness comes and goes, hang in thea,and talk to ur fiancee about how ur feeling so that he can understand the processes ur going thru and he will help u thru it to make it less bearable on you. so don' worry too much gal unless otherwise. u have a fiancee waiting to support you and ur baby, and i think thats a blessing to every pregnant woman, so that u dont feel alone. all the best in your pregnancy. enjoy every moment of it.