Gal,thats what i call rebound.You are going to be a mistake if u let him in.He hasn't gotten over his ex...i mean...2weeks...is it really enough to get over a 2years relationship? There's no formula of telling him"unanipeleka spidi and i don like it,come slow boy!"Its as easy as that.Don't let him introduce you to his family yet...avoid it like plague..its too soon.The ball is in your hands.Seems u care so much about what he will feel,what a bout what u will feel when he come around and says,"gal,am sorry twas a mistake,i guess i wasn't thinking straight and twas a rebound."By then,u r into this guys with all u got.How will u feel? Save yourself some regrets in future and him,save him some more pain.
Just be a good friend and nothing more,but u have to tell him to come slow on you babe.
All the best. |