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ANANIPELEKA SPIDI
i met this guy 2 weeks ago and he was from another relationship a week before we met he was staying with his galfriend for 2 year as come we stay now he alredy want to introduce me to his paro n relatives and he also want me to promise him that we are going to stay together am confused cause i told him to stop rushing me to promising him of us staying together and he doenst give me space he comes to my house everyday in the evening i cant have private moment and i cant do my own things how will i tell him to stop coming to my house all the time without him feeling bad n what should i do because he is rushing me up is all this coming up because his ex left him?
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2008-07-22 | Xtine said:
chic, that guy is a psycho run when u still can.
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2008-07-11 | flames said:
BE BRAVE ENOUGH
BE BRAVE ENOUGH AND FACE HIM & TELL HIM THE TRUTH COZ MAYBE HE IS TRYING TO FORGET HIS EX BY NAGGING U LLL THE TIME
ALSO TRY AND FIND OUT WAT MADE HIM TO SEPERATE WITH HIS FIRST G/F
I WISH U LUCK
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2008-07-07 | BILL said:
not advisable
The best thing to do usually is not to get into a deep relationship that involves deep feelings and emotions with someone who has just gotten out of a serious relationship. In fact you will realize he still loves his gf so mush that he cant imagine being without her and the fact that he is still angry and maybe feeling betrayed or let down, he is not in his right frame of mind as to make sober decisions about you and her. he is in a process called regression where he wants to do things differently- the things that he wished he would accomplish with his chik- things you may never like at all. while he wants to show you how much he loves you , he doesn't even understand his own feelings. that man id delicate and actually injured badly. just avoid him and be friends at a distance. he will cause you real pain. that may sound quite plain but thats it. stay away. you have a really big and happy future ahead of you and you don't want to plague it with bad memories. BILL.
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2008-07-05 | Argie said:
Rebound
Gal,thats what i call rebound.You are going to be a mistake if u let him in.He hasn't gotten over his ex...i mean...2weeks...is it really enough to get over a 2years relationship? There's no formula of telling him"unanipeleka spidi and i don like it,come slow boy!"Its as easy as that.Don't let him introduce you to his family yet...avoid it like plague..its too soon.The ball is in your hands.Seems u care so much about what he will feel,what a bout what u will feel when he come around and says,"gal,am sorry twas a mistake,i guess i wasn't thinking straight and twas a rebound."By then,u r into this guys with all u got.How will u feel? Save yourself some regrets in future and him,save him some more pain.
Just be a good friend and nothing more,but u have to tell him to come slow on you babe.
All the best.
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2008-07-04 | kazimoto said:
The guy is trying to create with you what he had with his ex. He hasn't even began to get over her. You have to let him go!