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Hi I had asked a question but I was not specific. Last weekend my husband came home with his EX and she spent the night at the couch, while I and my huzy slept in the same bed and when they came they were totally drunk. so I did not pick a fight in the morning when i asked him why he had done that he did not respond. So i decided to wait for him in the evening and the explanation he gave was that his Ex had no where to go so he decided to help her please guys what should i do he keeps on denying that he does not love her and its not for the first time i had seen in his phone many times that he had called her. please I am desperate help me so that I can know that step to take |
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| 2008-07-23 | Pearo said: |
Hell noh |
Iam contemplating of another scenario here picture this ......what if you came home with youre ex and both of you are drunk and he spends on his couch ...and you give him same answer he had nowhere to go i mean whats gives him the liberty to bring his ex kwako kwa nyumba eti aiiiish ..uuuuiiiiiiii The message has been passed to you by him and her its not l ike they didnt know a a they are upto something be wise weigh youre options.However you look at it ...si vizuri halivyo fanya he owes you and apology and a storo to what transpired. |
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| 2008-07-22 | Xtine said: |
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ok maam!! first things first, why the helll didnt u burn that biatch with boiling water and what is ur husbamnd still doing with his penis and why are his suits still intact.... jesus!!! lady that is provocation beyond provocation...... what kind of madharau is this.... ati what!!!!
me thinks that u need to put ur foot down... the way u behaved by letting that hubby of urs let the tart sleep in the house shows that u are ready to be walked all over.... it doesnt matter if u depend wholly on the assshole, u should be treated with the respoect u deserve and if it is not forthcoming u should grab it... let that man know that h e cannot treat u that way.... after that incident amn telling u very soon he and his ex will be shitting in uir head and expecting u to clean up thje mess.... gal, grow a pair.... |
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| 2008-07-21 | Lisa said: |
What the f**k!!! |
First of all you need to know that the two of them have totally lost respect for you. The next time, you will be the one sleeping on the couch while they share the bed if u put up with that kind of nonsense!!!
We all know how our current partners feel about our ex's and how we also feel about our partner's ex's. Am sure any man would never even consider taking his ex home to spend after drinking with her most of the night when he has a wife. Those two have totally lost it.
How dare that woman go out and drink with your husband then come and spend at your house like its hers!!!! After drinking his money!!!
WHAT ARE YOU IN THAT HOUSE??? A MBOCH???? I can't even understand how you could wait for the next day to ask questions. Am sorry to say this but at times in a relationship or even a marriage you need to be a B*TCH!! You should have thrown her out!!!
My advice to you is that you need to kick some butt!! You can't allow the two of them to despise you like that!! Neither can you allow that woman to take away your husband. So wake up girl and put your foot down. Call that woman and give her threatening threats and don't tell your husband about it, let her go crying to him. Let them know that you mean business. If this doesn't work, give him an ultimatum, don't forget to mention the court that gives you half the property you two own+child upkeep.
After all that was YOUR couch she was smearing with the smell of beer, YOUR house(Did she take breakfast??.....Oh My God Did she throw up in YOUR HOUSE??).
What is she teaching your child?? Kick her out of your family's life girl, and kick her hard!! What lack of manners!!!! |
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