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why dont they stick?
I dont really know whats the problem with me. i am 23 years old n have never had a boyfriend people always comment am beautiful n actually never walk in peace in the streets n guys always stare at me. every time i hook up with a guy they always leave me after they have sex with me yet they come to me like they are serious. can some one help me please
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2008-07-25 | nyashinky said:
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baibe am sorry 4 wat u going thro'.one question u should ask urself is that do u tend to nag ur guy or stick around him alot n also is the sex btn u enjoyable or hot.cz if u are hot as u say then i dont believe that their's a man in his sane mind would leave u.please check the above items cz they intend to put men off or want to get rid of u.
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2008-07-23 | Pearo said:
Hugs ...iam saddened to hear this,Men nowadays are out to collect trophies and men talk,sleep,eat, sex its always in their mind men wen they meet hardly hours pass by without thinkin sex or female crossing thru their minds .I mean its like a battle who lays many and what type ...they love flossing around women to their other men .and many chics fall prey to this trickery ,why when you go out after 2 or even one he is allover you l ike he knows you for eternity ..then he wants to lay you....Try this when you meet a guy and after several dates he want to lay you or touch you stop him and tell him umechill till you married ..he either chikens o ut or starts a clande while with you or he tells you .." uni love " But if you give in to his demands you finished.Men are very weak gal let me leak for you this info for youre knowledge ...and the first thing a man does to capture you is drain the power within you once he successeds you are his puppet,be vigilant and be wise ...men fear women who can stand by their turf.
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2008-07-23 | nkiro said:
hey gal.......u must listen to bill. i also have this to add. am a chic in the same exact position as ur. get a lot of attention from guys for sex. luckili i havent given in. it is very tricky for a beautiful mama as u get lots attention from guys......just in the same way loaded guys get lots attention from chics. learn and pray that you may discern the serious ones from the hit and runs. how can u tell? play very hard to get and see if he'l stick around. well that may not be the only remedy.....does he care about you? listen to you? treat you right?? and learn to discern this.....most dudes would do anything to screw a fly mama so just make sure that he doesnt over do the attention u knw flowers daily etc etc. no matter how much u like a guy, sleeping with him hands him the remote control.....so gal keep it locked and learn to discern serious guys from quick lays. am really much olrder and very beautiful and am glad that i applied this principle thruout my whole life.......av no regrets. i dont look back with shame and i feel dignified as a woman cos only gave it up to very serious dudes. sex in as much as guys hate to admit it, is spiritual.....u form some sort of bond with anyone u sleep with. so beware whom u go around forming bonds with, it had better be someone who is worth it...
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2008-07-22 | BILL said:
listen carefuly
Please listen carefully. Men and women have different needs and if a man cannot fulfill the needs of his woman, the woman gets her needs fulfilled elsewhere. it happens likewise for men. You are very naive. now thats harsh. but wait are you sure you are doing everything right. From today dont get laid again. Never until you are married. That way men will respect you. From today dont fall for a man too easily even if you are terrifically attracted to him. Always let him chase you and create the hope that he will find you one day let him keep chasing, and if you dont know how, ask your experienced, responsible and sober girlfriends. they will show you how. Men will run away too fast and stay really far from a woman who cant keep herself. I will never ever entertain a woman who wants to laugh at everything I do or anything that is about me; a woman who is never a challenge. unfortunately that could be the mistake you are making. please take this positively and if you have some money, please purchase a book called His Needs, Her Needs. it will open your eyes and kill your naivety. BILL.
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2008-07-21 | Camila said:
Please my dear, why do you have to give it to everybody, they just find you cheap and men dont like gals who are that cheap, they like chasing - please change all the best
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2008-07-21 | loks said:
there seem to b something u do not do right or may b u send the wrong signals : that u do not need more than a lay! sit back and review ua lifestyle en things might change.
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2008-07-21 | nico said:
maybe u r meeting d wrong pple u r after sex pliz take time to learn someone b4 aving sex with them n b prayerful n u will get d right guy