men are peculiar creatures.they are never sure of what they want.thats why a man would have two chicks at atime and claim he loves them both and yet when the time comes to marry he will not marry either of them.he will hook up with a third chick and marry her.once married he will see her faults and claim shes crazy and that she doesnt give him peace.now thats a licence to look for yet a concubine.in essence men dont really look for particular characteristics in women.they take whats offered.

To a man is very normal.I thing men dont just consider how long you have been together but what he has found out that you are worth.I might be hav dated you fr 4 yrs but frm this long relationship its only stress you hav caused me and my memory about you shall be a negative one.

Marriage is about compatibity btn the two.You might love the guy because of his softness on which capitalises on to harass him with all sort of accussations but he can react not knowing that he is just a time bomb.so its better to watch your movements even if your relationship is as long as no one else's.
Its you that matters that men considers and as BILL said is all about your exposure that will trim and groom you to be suitable to a man.

A man would rather burn his head in hot porridge than tell you that u r not the one. so yeah, he will still go out with you even when he knows he cannot marry you. That's why there are so many cases of a man marrying a girl he just met, leaving his 4year old girlfriend shocked and ruined.

Going out and marrying are two different things, there are those chics you go out with just to have fan, as in u go take beers, choma ya mbuzi and dance ken wa maria at Connection knowing you cant marry them. and now those wife material things(angles) who dont even know the teste of a beer. so watch out to where u belong.

do you know how hurting it is to be dated by a guy and then later he decides to marry someone else?just dont date a lady coz it is normal, but date a lady who you would want to spend the rest of your life with

If you find out the food you are about to eat is not good enough would you still eat it? yes or no the choice lies with you .Be wise and choose wisely It is said you never know what you have until you loose it .

Its really a question of many ladies. First of all, like everybody else, men look for good mannered ladies. this means a well groomed person, who maintains cleanliness, is neat and basically good behaved. man really love women who are brilliant, calm yet very strong willed to offer a hand when in times of confusion or when things are not working out. far from that naivety is a blunder that many chiks make. be exposed, read a lot and be assertive. you will be the right candidate for your potential hubby if you spend most of your time on learning how to be the best that you can be. invest yourself more of what you would love other people to invest in you. learn about what pleases men and what really maintains the chemistry and keeps him close for many years. never forget, a God fearing woman who is chaste and straightforward about virtue is like a magnet to majority of men. thats the overriding factor, at least according to me. I recommend the book, His Needs, Her Needs. it will really help you. it costs like 1,500, soft cover in our local book stores. its worth its value. BILL.