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Patience Pays??? I don't think so!!!!
Patience pays??? I've waited for long!!! I yearn for a stable relationship. But no good girl comes my way? Where do we get this good girls on the streets? When i approach, all says are hookup. I need a chick at any given expence. I though when i get a good job they will all come. But nobody on my side? Help pliz
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2008-09-14 | tusri said:
True love waits
true love waits .A sense of desperation is setting in and u wonder why cant chic notice u or push with u.I have been in the same position.U will find out that u are currently undergoing peer pressure and ur being teased .At this point don't give in .I have severally contemplated of pushing with street chics and the available ones u find are prostitutes who are nice and welcoming but i didn't have sex with them coz ITS NOT WORTH IT TRUST ME .

when i had the same urge i ended up having sex with my current girlfriend resulting 2 pregnancy .

money wound get u love .

patience will brother.

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2008-08-27 | Lisa said:
Just one thing, a chic who comes to you coz u now have a good job is only good 4 a lay. Jobs come and go, money will not always be there, u need someone who can be by your side even at the worst and unthinkable time for a stable relationship. The problem is that such good women almost always take forever to come but they eventually do.
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2008-08-04 | loks said:
take ua time, gud things wil come your way. you need not rush.
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2008-08-04 | BILL said:
try looking into the hearts more
soul searching as a technique has valuable benefits to humanity. especially when things seem never to connect. in this case the results are evident. you either haven't soul searched at all or you are doing it in disconnect. but don't you worry yourself at all. you have no problem but you will need to really work hard at some things. first you have to change your perspective about women. for example your view of the women in the streets as ''these good girls in the streets''. its not entirely true that those girls in the streets are good. and good is relevant and very subjective. and there is nothing wrong about girls saying they are hooked. they will always say that especially to people who don't seem appealing to them. and for women looks are second. personality is everything. you must be decent and well behaved. for real not a putting up of face. secondly, please note that, and believe it very earnestly that once you get social and in the right places then you have numerous opportunities. please let dating become a wholesome and truly pleasurable experience. please get to learn how to love yourself and develop the courage to accept that you can be loved. also appreciate that by respecting other people you will attract the same kind. and there the ball will start rolling for you. thats where your girl you will find your girl. its only by revolutionizing yourself and making every of your senses come to life that you will enjoy the fruits of good relations. I will pray for you, but you will need to work hard at it. BILL.