why would she be in your hse in the 1ST PLACE if he can do this to you while u can see what do you think he does wear condoms dont be a statistic

stop being all emotional and reason ..look at the facts one,if the woman was sleeping with your husband most probably she would not have come to your house....two,shes already pissed by your husband so i doubt theres any chance of them sleeping 2gether...three,if your husband owes that lady money she can sue you too as an accomplice.so here is the solution..talk to your husband and plan how you will pay that cash back so the woman can leave you in peace.

Number 1. Your hubby is a coward dude! how can he hide himself in da bedroom?No. 2. he is a conman! so watch out another one is on the way coming for him and this time around she gonna go straight to the bedroom to get him.

That woman desperately needs the money your husband owes her. So instead of whining about being cheated on, sit down with your husband and come up with that woman's money!! You should also not let your husband behave like a typical conman, how dare he hide in the bedroom and refuse to talk to that woman?!

I understand your problem. You are under so much pressure because your husband has been hiding from you the fact that he is in debt and to a woman. Your husband has been trying to protect his ego by this silence. too bad for him because all secrets can only last for a time. firstly, please note that its not easy for a woman to follow up a man the way that woman did-coming all the way to your house unless there is something very grave. women don't like controversies with men and men naturally avoid such confrontations like a plague. i think the problem with your husband is so genuine. he is cash trapped and he is silent about it. he is also making the wrong choices like borrowing too much from one source without a clear way of repayment. Please don't be too angry at him. He probably needs your support and understanding now that never before. again let him tell you why he chose to keep it silent and whether there is anything more between them. I can guarantee you that there is no court in Kenya that can grant divorce rights to a case like yours, unless you prove that you husband has deserted you for that woman for a period ranging from six months to one year or deprived you of your legally deserving conjugal rights or has been consistently violent over the same period. and you must also prove to the court that you have repeatedly tried to solve that problem several times and consulted both your parents and other relevant authorities. The only options you have right now is among others to demand the truth from your hubby and if he needs support give it to him. but first please let him tell you everything- the truth. usikubali akudanganye. hata kama ni kumsaidia please after he has opened up completely. financial problems can run too deep if not nipped in the bud at the earliest opportunity. talk to your husband. divorce is disastrous. you may demand half of what he owns only to find that all he tells you he owns is not his. then you are dead. watch out. BILL.