Lisa.........has spoken like a guru.Men are physically strong but emotionally weak .If all women knew how to tame a man using his weakness ..iam telling you you heading for ...... happily ever after.

Naturally and frm the answers give to this question you will find that men and women when it comes to sex issues reason total differently.why?...I thing a woman grow up Knowing natural that men cheat and mine also must cheat and I must be very careful in finding out who he is going to cheat with.
From this nortion frm their childhood,when you get into a marriage she starts relating everything disagreement you hav with it.every time you are broke you must be having someone you're spending your money on.With this preformed mentality they tend to drive men away without knowing.Imagine when you leave work tired and youre just sure that your wife/girlfriend is going to querrel you fr being late or comparing you to so and so who has what.Do you thing these will give you even the appetite to hav an erection?simply not coz you'll always be worried of the demands youre trying to fulfill and these will never allow u to hav peace even fr one minute which you can only find somewhere else.where? ask men.
Our lady's try to appreciate the man you hav and avoid the a nortion that a man must cheat,dont spy on him and avoid being demanding and comparing him to so and so,try to put on romantic attires like the ones we see around in town.Also let mzee try different positions for are a change without calling him names the missionary style is sometime boring.

Actually the percentage of men who cheat for sex only is surprisingly low. Most married women find it almost impossible to treat or talk to their husbands with respect, they shout at the slightest mistake and enjoy making the man look like a loser. A wife congratulating her husband for what he can do or has achieved is almost unheard of. Many wives also expect their husbands to admire them but do not do the same for their men. Most women start feeling that they are not as sexy as they used to be as soon as the first child is born. This affects their self esteem and lowers their excitement abt sex by a hundred fold(their husbands can help them out of this but most of them just run away). And what about those women who go sengenya-ing their men with the neighbours?

Men normally go to women, young or not, who make them feel like true men and important. Respected, admired, needed and wanted. Say how would you relate to a friend who shouts at you everytime you forget to pay the electricity bill? or one who never compliments u but expects u to admire them? or doesn't seem to care whether or not u got promoted? or one who gives you a cold treatment for two whole days?

Our men are strong but very weak. take good care of them

Maze those tu young chics are hot and they know how to peana the thing, most of the married women just take it for granted, i never used to go out but now i'm doing coz it's like i have to beg my wife for it. there are others out there who are even ready to suck........................

Coz they just want more Sex, yet the married women :
1. fake head aches,
2.they dress to bed like they are going to the moon
3. They ask for a million things to have been done by the man so they can get a piece of it.

So men who arent yet married, pliz dont ever think about it

I think its peer pressure, when men meet in bars, they only talk of women - and how many they lay down, so if you find yourself in such a meeting and you have nothing to say - they you are considered a lesser man - thats ma opinion am not sure

this is a complex issue that actually requires maximum sense of sobriety ant time you look into it. why do i say so. every human being has needs. these needs are so deeply believed and their need for fulfillment is very intense. when these needs are not met the way we want we usually tend to blame our partners and therefore neglecting our responsibilities to let them know what is troubling us. now there are several reasons that lead to cheating. its not entirely a mans problems but both men and women. men run away too fast though because of these factors. the main reason like i said id the lack of fulfilling of the basic human needs like sex, partnership, understanding, AFFECTION AND DEEP/TRUE LOVE, support, and care. these needs are usually overtaken by several factors in the marriage. like may be when the children come, long distance work posts, alcoholism, very busy scheduled that separate the couples and maybe lack of genuine affection and love from your partner. remember you may really love this man but the way you show him you do scares him stiff. like if you are too insecure and constantly expressing the need to have him around you, or running to him for every small decision, depending on him for support, exhibiting tendencies of lack of confidence or maybe you are too clingy and too emotional. infact too much emotional encounters scare men away. its very easy to have your man want to only have you. there are no rules to the game. just love him genuinely and let him know about it. then give it space to grow between you. share your emotions soberly and genuinely and at all times remain true to yourself and respect self and him. this will make every man want to have every little space he has to want to be with you. but remember you must openly talk about your needs without getting emotional. this may be difficult because needs usually elicit emotions but you must be able to state your case that you don't feel satisfied by your partners certain way of behavior or response toward you without making them feel insulted or irresponsible. strive to fulfill your mans needs; and i mean all of them genuinely and at the right time. you will never have him go away. women must never be afraid to speak their fears to men. they should just get down to it and express themselves maturely and soberly. men are understanding naturally and they love it when they are led to understand what they don't. Thats my take. BILL.

AS FOR ME I THINK ITS A DEMON WHICH POSSES THEM AND THEY COME TO SEE THAT THE LADIES FROM OUTSIDE ARE BETTER THAN THEIR OWN WIVES COZ I THINK ITS NOTNORMAL FOR A MAN WITH A FAMILY TO BEHAVE IN THIS MANNER

There are actually two kinds of men out there, playboys or playas or bad boys and men. To try and explain why the first kind of men cheat is a waste of time; it's simply something in their genes that makes them do so.(there is a pun there that is not intended) Avoid them at all cost!
The second kind of men cheat for the same reason women do. Somehow everyone seems to underestimate the importance of intimacy in a relationship. By intimacyi do not mean sex but rather that feeling of closeness that makes sex worthwhile. It makes a man and a woman more than just husband and wife, it makes them best friends, confidants and comrades through life. If a man or woman no longer feels that his or her partner is a friend, someone who has her back, whether this feeling is justified or not he or she will cheat in an effort to find that intimacy again.