i would advise you to take him to the nearest clinic and get the sleeves off the ...it would be very helpful for him and you in the future.

So you have slept with this man over a 3 year period and you just seen his dick recently eh? Yani you just lala there .....kweli its true the biggest sex tool is the mind

circumcised or not make no diffrence. in America, most people are not cut so i dont c why many pple fuss on those kind of stupid stuff. by tha way am a kikuyu but that doesnot mean shit!

you are not comfortable with it talk to him.

This is a very difficult situation many things to consider?

It is a choice on if you want to have it removed or not. Many men do not and as you get older it is more involved. It requires an overnight stay at the hospital. Most times it is removed at birth by the doctor, parent’s choice.

2) I have know other women friends that have has sex with men that did not have it removed and shared that it was not an issue and some shared it was more sensual? Men’s magazines reflect many women that say it is better being the sex, when it is not removed?

3) Depending on how close you two are and how serious you two are about each other. If you’re not truly in love I think you should move on as you have a hang up with it. If you two are both very much in love you might want to ask him. But it might be like him asking you to change the shape of your nose or your breast are too small or too big? How would you feel?

Cleanliness is silly in my opinion, if not a clean person you would not be with the person. HIV is a concern some shared. But I think that is not an issue if the two of you are seeing only you. If you have had other sex partners, good for both of you to be tested.

I hope this helps, Redman

I trully sympathise with u. I am a man and A true man who has not yet had the thing chopped and is brave enough to let his gal see IT Is an embarasment to the whole man society.Its Gross. Kama hataki ikatwe Hospitalini, we mtaim halafu ukate.U can conceal a razor in ua hand then KATA!

READ Genesis 17 verse 10.

there is nothing wrong, really. what is the big issue.

I believe Loks is very right,life does not revolve around sex,infact what matters is whether the man really cares about her.

i don't think either loks or sniper is right. That issue will never leave ur mind,and will make u very uncomfortable every time u see or think abt is thing which is going to be frequent. That will eventually work against ur relationship. the best thing i think would be to end it coz i don't know how the guy would feel if u told him to get himself a cut. it might seem like u r questioning his manhood.

But to be honest, someone should tell him to get a cut

Think about what you are choosing. You are better off with an uncut but faithful man who loves you and is honest than with a cut man who is unfaithful. The HIV angle should not be a reason as it does not replace the fact that abstainance and faithfulness as the key method of HIV prevention. A real man is alot more than the organ......please think about that. Cutting or not cutting has nothing to do with who the man is...

u shud not be complaining about the current situation of your guy, the issue should be whether he is performing his job well or not. dont mind of his condition!
think about what you want

Please if you can, tell him to get cut because the world health organization and the doctors in the world are advocating for the cut. the reason s are so heavy. the cut prevents the contracting of HIV/AIDS by 60%. it also maintains the cleanliness of the man and makes sex very easy and comfortable. it also boosts the esteem of men and makes the women feel like they are associating with real men. the way it makes you feel is very important but please do it for medical reasons and hygiene.Please don't leave him. tell him its important to get the cut. he may be injured emotionally and suffer esteem disorders but the results will really benefit him and you. if he refuses. then i leave it to you. BILL.

IF THIS THING IS GOING TO AFFECT YUA LIFE U BETTER BE BRAVE ENOUGH AND FACE YOUR BOYFRIEND AND TELL HIM

Though i sympathize with the brotha, i really think if u dont like something then u shud leave it. Ask him to get cut, or end the rltship. Good luck

Am just wondering, kwani you asked a question and you answered yourself, ama what am i seeing? Anyway yes just talk to him, but is there any difference by the way? But do i say

I WOULD ADVICE U TO TELL HIM NOW RATHER THAN LATER COZ IT MIGHT HURM U R RELATIONSHIM. MAYB HE CAN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT......