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i do not nderstand myself
am a single lady who is looking for a guy to settle with the problem is i do not know when am in love hence how can i know someone is serious with me ? also how can i get ride of someone who has brought nothing but pain in my life? yes i fell in love with a guy for yrs not knowing he was married despite all he was always cheating on me with other women and now am tired how can i get him out of my life for good and have a new life? he made me to be tempered which i was not i need to be old self quite understanding ,and quiet lady i used to be please help me guys says have changed and am rude i do not know what i want in life please help
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2008-08-21 | Kariztex said:
Not only you!!!
Dont worry. We are the same boat. Check out under relationship section all my cries. "where is this pretty gal? Gals!! Gal!!! Gals!!! Patience pays, i dont think so!! " I this are my postings. You the ladies are the ones stressing us. or whats your opinion? ruwejim@yahoo.com
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2008-08-19 | karen said:
DONT WORRY
My friend always when you realize u are getting close or the relationship has started building up be asking the guy are u married or do you have a family coz nowadays men pretend to single guys and yet they have families just to take advantages of other womens. also visit him at his place atleast you can have an idea whether they is somebody in that house or u will hear how the guy will behave.
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2008-08-19 | BILL said:
get out fast
I have always advocated for naturing the relationship even in times of pain and difficulty. but here is a guy who doesn't help you grow or become a better person the only good thing he is good at is making you feel bad about yourself and cheating on you. realize that a man who cheats on you doesn't respect you or really love you. and you know what its useless to try making a relationship like this work. to me you sound like you really know what you are doing and what you want. therefore, please make it a point to break up with this man. its very simple. just break up. go your way. cut all links. change your number, forget about everything because you made a mistake. you deserve a man who will respect you and remain sensitive and responsible for you. BILL.
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2008-08-18 | flames said:
TRUST IN GOD
U KINOW WAT U SHULD DO MY DEAR JUST TRUST IN THE LORD FOR HE WILL SEE U THRU AMN SORRY FOR THE WAY THIS GUY WASTED YOUR TIME JUST PRAY HARD TO GOD THAT HE MAY GIVE U A GUY WHO IS HONEST ENOUIGH AND THAT HE MAY ALSO HELP U TO BREAK YOUR TEMPER OTHERWISE I WISH U LUCK
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2008-08-18 | Domie said:
Reclaim ya self
Mmmh, quite a predicament not to know yrself at this age!! I feel that u hav been living a life of denial or from a borrowed script or tryna be like someone. Stop existing and start living

Get rid of this guy. He aint worth yr tears and yr time. See what u got yrself into , maybe by just believing any one who came yr way!
True love takes time to find and to maintain. Most of the time, it will require you to give up something. Are you still having a picture of an ideal man who u believe is the only on who can love you? Do you just dismiss many suitable guys just coz they miss one of the 23 traits of yr ideal guy?
I wish you sucess in yr efforts to redeem who you once was. I also wish you luck as you continue kissing more frogs, not seeing Mr. Right who was just right there waiting for you.