i love him, i dont understand him |
|
hi Dk,there is this guy am dating, i met him four years ago and ever since, we have been on and off yani tunakosana, tuna move on with some other people then after some time we get back to each other... the problem is tat of late ive been so much in love with him and now want to get settled, he also claims the same but am not so sure of it. He does everything for me but since he works quite far away from me,am not sure whether he really means what he says.
At times i do call him at night only to find that his fon is of leaving me with so many doubts but whenever i ask him about it, he at times claims that it dind have charge or maybe he had left it at home while going on a night shift at work.............. i love him and i dont want to break up with him again what should i do about it? |
|
| Posted Answers |
 |
| 2008-09-04 | kazimoto said: |
|
If you really are serious about settling down then why don't you both start by living in the same place for a while. The distance and maybe the fact that the both of you are intense people is probably the reason why your relationship is so turbulent. You owe it to yourselves to give it a proper go. |
|
 |
| 2008-09-03 | Domie said: |
He loves you |
I know these rltships where u break up n make up n those r the ones that end up marrying. I have been there.
This guy loves u becoz:
The times u have broken up n each gone their way n dated other people,he finds that you are far better than the chic he is currently seeking and pots to come back. This guy thinks he can get a better person, but after meeting n dating them, he still prefers u.
I know this guy loves u coz i had the same rltship with a chic for 6 yrs. Unfortunately the last time i tried that, i lost her for life, it it hurt like hell. |
|
 |
| 2008-09-03 | Pearo said: |
utashangaa |
He has another one and you the one telling him how you feel about him he is only wooing you so he can have you both ...the reason he switches his phone is becoz of you calling him ..why dont you stop calling him for kindu one month the call him after that you find his phone open .Other wise you going to waste youre time with him ..however on a positive note why not give him time to see if he really means ...a man in need ... will chase you day and night ..believe me or not ata sinzia akikuwaza |
|
 |
| 2008-09-03 | Camila said: |
|
Dont rush into things just give him sometime and watch his behavior, of course i believe you can tell when somebody really loves you, you will definitely know whether he is serious or not - wish you best of luck |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|